Crazy. Beautiful. Love.

Dan Savage ruined my marriage. But he saved my life.

Wisdom of a single advice columnist changed everything.
When I moved out, I took only the clothes I could carry, my two decade old writing desk, my office chair, and the books on my keeper shelf.

Walking out of a decade plus marriage was the easy part. Getting my self esteem back was much harder.

Once I healed enough to realize I was okay, I was ready to start dating again. #50firstdates was born. Fifty dates seemed like enough to meet Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now.

Dating in middle-age was nothing like I thought it was going to be. Follow me on my real-life journey…